A baby in a car seat, wearing a white hat slightly tilted to the side and a blue outfit, is curiously gazing at the camera. The car seat features a gray and white checkered pattern, reminiscent of the playful setups during get-to-know-you activities for students, where every detail counts.

“What a leader needs most importantly is a strong spirit.”   –Ethan Zucker August 2002 “Meg, I am sure the schools here can make special accommodations for Ethan, given the way he was…

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A person kneeling on a mat, engaged in SEL activities, holds two green dumbbells while wearing a beige shirt and dark shorts. Padded coverings are visible on their knees, and the background shows blurred windows.

“In many track races, competitors will not line up at one even starting mark. Instead, runners start in their own lane at different positions on the track. This creates a staggered appearance for…

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Three people stand close together, smiling at the camera after enjoying some get-to-know-you activities for students. The person on the left wears a pink shirt, the middle sports a green and white striped shirt with white shorts, and the right is in a blue graphic tee paired with pink shorts.

Preface February 1994  “Meg, let’s go to the Waverly!   “˜Reality Bites,’ a new movie with Ethan Hawke, is  playing.”   It was Regina.   Although we were graduating from NYU Law School…

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Four women in fashionable clothing pose confidently while sitting in wheelchairs against a dark background, embodying the spirit of SEL activities. One woman raises her arm energetically, while the others display different styles and expressions.

Recently, a great guy named Chad, a new Don’t Hide It Flaunt It follower, asked me what would seem to be a simple question, “Could I ask, what drove you to start this…

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Bright sun over a peaceful beach with trees and distant mountains, mirroring the harmonious blend of a SEL curriculum. The sunlight reflects on the calm sea, creating a serene atmosphere akin to get-to-know-you activities for students fostering genuine connections.

Preface May 2013   Rio de Janeiro, Brazil I tensed, hoping that the people joining me for dinner hadn’t overheard.  I had  flown down to Rio for the week for work.   It…

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A young person with short brown hair lies in a hospital bed, wearing a purple gown. Bandages cover their arms as they clutch a small stuffed lion. Medical equipment surrounds them, while thoughts of SEL activities bring comfort during this challenging time.

Preface May 2013 I turned around to see our eight-year old, Charlie, goofing around with some friends in our mini-van on a group playdate.   They were clearly in a great mood, with…

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A person with long brown hair smiles while standing outdoors at an event. They're wearing a strapless black outfit, and a crowd and a structure are visible in the background under a clear blue sky, creating an ideal setting for SEL activities that foster connection and engagement.

Preface 1980  I could overhear my mom speaking to my grandma long distance on the phone.   Although I couldn’t hear what my grandmother was saying to her, I could practically feel the…

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CASEL Competencies
 
  • Self-awareness: Assessing
 one’s own strengths […] and possessing confidence and growth mind-set
  • Social awareness: Taking the perspective of and empathizing with others from diverse backgrounds and cultures
  • Relationship skills: Establishing healthy and rewarding relationships with diverse individuals.