A smiling man wearing a yellow swim cap and goggles sits on the edge of an outdoor pool, embodying the essence of getting to know you activities. In swim trunks, with a water bottle, flip-flops, and a kickboard nearby, he's surrounded by palm trees and a bright yellow wall.

We all start out so unabashedly unashamed. Whatever makes us different we regard without concern of how others might be making assumptions about us. Then it all changes.   Someone.   Somehow. Sometime.…

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A boy in a blue hoodie featuring a whale and the word "Nantucket" stands smiling on a gravel path. Behind him, a red and white striped lighthouse is visible under a clear blue sky—the perfect setting for engaging SEL activities that build empathy and connection.

Preface July 1986 I looked around and waited until the pool manager, Scott Lopeman, walked past me and into the clubhouse before taking off my shoes and rushing quickly to the pool diving…

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A person with long hair sits against a brick wall, wearing a coat and blue sneakers. Sporting a prosthetic leg, they look contemplative, engaging in some quiet social emotional learning activity, with a drink cup placed on the ground beside them.

We all arrive  so unabashedly unashamed.   Whatever makes us unique….different…special –we regard without concern. We flaunt without a care. Then, we change.   Someone.   Somehow. Sometime.   Something. We find ourselves…

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Three people pose for a picture in an elegant setting, featuring a decorative sculpture in the background. As part of diversity programs, they stand before a marble fountain with golden accents, smiling and dressed in semi-formal attire, celebrating unity and inclusion.

Preface September 1976 “C’mon Meg, you can try this pair on!”I was in 2nd grade and my family and I had just moved to Islamabad, Pakistan. For the first two weeks, we lived…

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A vintage class photo from Yankee Ridge School for grade 3, 1977-1978, features rows of students' headshots along with images of a rabbit and various hand-drawn sketches in black and white. The principal, Mrs. Dees, and the teacher, Mrs. Applegate, are known for pioneering diversity programs in education.

Preface   September 1977 “I’ll do it. I’ll take Snowball home.”It was the first day of school, and my teacher, Mrs. Applebee at Yankee Ridge elementary in Urbana, IL had just surprised us…

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CASEL Competencies
 
  • Self-awareness: Assessing
 one’s own strengths […] and possessing confidence and growth mind-set
  • Social awareness: Taking the perspective of and empathizing with others from diverse backgrounds and cultures
  • Relationship skills: Establishing healthy and rewarding relationships with diverse individuals.