A child in a red sweater stands in front of a presentation screen, reading from a sheet of paper as part of an SEL activity. The screen shows a slide with a group photo and the text "We are all different!" The setting appears to be a classroom engaged in social emotional learning.

“It is an absolute human certainty that no one can know his own beauty or perceive a sense of his own worth until it has been reflected back to him in the mirror…

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A man in a suit and tie stands next to a woman in a black dress with a lace neckline. They are smiling, posing in a warmly lit room adorned with patterned rugs and curtains, reminiscent of settings used for diversity programs aimed at fostering understanding through shared experiences.

Preface October 2015 “Hey, you seem like something is wrong. You seem off. I noticed you with your handicap, struggling with your bags on the way here and I don’t like the way…

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A painting of a woman with a dark hair bun, wearing an ornate gold and patterned dress, set against a vivid gold background adorned with geometric shapes. The artwork is rich in detail and texture, resembling the complexity found in SEL curriculum designs.

Preface   October 1979 “On Rosh Hashanah it is written; on Yom Kippur it is sealed, who shall live and who shall die”¦..”In that moment I carefully slipped my one fingered hand into…

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A young boy in a suit, blue shirt, and red-striped tie sits in the passenger seat of a car, smiling as he contemplates his day filled with engaging SEL activities. With hands resting on his lap, he looks forward to sharing what he's learned as trees blur by outside the window.

Preface January 2004 The Department of Motor Vehicles (DMV) employee stared at me, becoming visibly upset, then at John, then me again and spoke matter-of-factly, in the same tone as if he was…

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A spacious indoor auditorium with an empty stage and rows of white seats hosts social emotional learning activities. The ceiling features exposed red beams, and natural light filters in through large windows on the side, creating a calming ambiance for participants.

Preface   June 1989 “When the bus arrives, be sure to make sure the girls in your cabin feel welcome.   This place is highly competitive during the day as you all know,…

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Four pairs of feet are visible as people relax in a hot tub with clear water. A scenic view of a lake and mountains is in the background, along with a flagpole holding a flag. This tranquil setting is perfect for SEL activities, fostering connection and relaxation amid nature’s embrace.

Preface June 1977 “Teddy, let’s play!”I had held up my two one-fingered hands, bending them up and down and offering my right hand, lovingly named “˜Cutlet,’ for my younger brother to play with.…

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CASEL Competencies
 
  • Self-awareness: Assessing
 one’s own strengths […] and possessing confidence and growth mind-set
  • Social awareness: Taking the perspective of and empathizing with others from diverse backgrounds and cultures
  • Relationship skills: Establishing healthy and rewarding relationships with diverse individuals.