The image depicts the Taj Mahal, a white marble mausoleum in Agra, India, reflected in a long pool. Emphasizing diversity much like its cultural impact, the structure features a large dome and minarets against a clear blue sky.

Preface   March 1974 In some respects, it was quite ironic. As I stared in awe of a stunningly beautiful building surrounded by four large free-standing minarets, its dome covered in glistening white…

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A diverse group of seven well-dressed individuals poses in front of window blinds, standing and sitting around two chairs. The words "Mad Men" are prominently displayed at the bottom in bold red and white letters, reminiscent of get-to-know-you activities where personalities boldly stand out.

Preface   January 1969 “Sorry, we don’t actually know what this is.”It had been only an hour since my delivery, and the doctors were speaking to my father. Not only was having a…

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A person wearing sunglasses and a suit, smiling, and holding a Grammy award—showcasing the harmony of self-expression akin to a social emotional learning curriculum. The image is in black and white, capturing timeless confidence.

This blog post is dedicated to my husband John, the love of my life, in honor of his birthday today.   Preface February 1976 “Who is that?”I was watching the Grammy Awards with…

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A group of people in business attire are seated around a conference table, engaged in what seems like diversity programs discussions. Two women are in focus, exchanging ideas over documents and phones. Others stand in the background, all set against a room filled with office furniture and a presentation board.

Preface   October 2008 Within an hour, the initial stress on my mind would seem ridiculous.   It was the end of October, and I woke up early wondering what costume Ethan, our…

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A young girl with blonde curly hair stands smiling in a pink and brown-themed bedroom. Wearing a brown top and plaid skirt with a pink bow, she embodies the joy found in SEL activities. The room features a pink bedspread with polka dots, a dresser, and soft toys filled with warmth.

Preface August 2011 “Savanna’s still severely allergic to all nuts, even walnuts now.”   I already wasn’t crazy about the allergist, who only twenty minutes before had practically tricked our five-year old into…

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Three children smiling and posing in an indoor play area, enjoying a day filled with fun SEL activities. The boy on the left wears a black T-shirt, the boy in the middle sports a white Yankees shirt, and the girl on the right has a pink shirt with a birthday cake print. Inflatable slides are in the background.

Mojo: a power that may seem magical and that allows someone to be very effective, successful (Merriam-Webster) Preface September 7, 2010 “Let’s go kids!”I feigned joy but actually felt an inner tremor.  …

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CASEL Competencies
 
  • Self-awareness: Assessing
 one’s own strengths […] and possessing confidence and growth mind-set
  • Social awareness: Taking the perspective of and empathizing with others from diverse backgrounds and cultures
  • Relationship skills: Establishing healthy and rewarding relationships with diverse individuals.