Two young gymnasts wearing matching black and white tracksuits with orange accents hug each other and smile, embodying the spirit of teamwork fostered through social emotional learning activities. They stand in a gymnasium with blue mats and equipment in the background.

Preface February 1976 “We’re gonna Zoom-Zoom-Zooma-Zoom”¦C’mon and Zooma-Zooma-Zooma-Zoom!”I stared at the kids jumping up and down singing with their arms swaying, wearing red and blue  striped shirts. Although I was only seven, we…

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Two children, embodying the spirit of social emotional learning activities, smile joyfully while sitting together on a playground slide. The child on the left wears a red shirt and floral pants, while the one on the right sports a white shirt and striped pants, both radiating playful happiness.

Preface   January 1978 “I don’t think you should try that.   You don’t have ten fingers!”I was nine, standing next to my older brother Peter at Orchard Downs.   Peter was older…

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Four people pose happily at a dimly lit restaurant table, engaging in a delightful social emotional learning activity. Surrounded by plates of food and glasses, they enjoy each other's company. Behind them, a warmly decorated interior with framed pictures adds to the cozy atmosphere.

Preface   October 1990 “Congrats, Jennifer! You won! You won!”   The outburst came as soon as the vote was counted by my fellow Kappa Kappa Gamma sorority sister who then turned to…

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A young girl with curly blonde hair stands indoors, smiling at the camera. Her black outfit features a large purple heart design, echoing themes from SEL curriculum aimed at nurturing emotional intelligence. She confidently poses with one hand on her hip, a dining table and chairs in the background.

Preface     September 2013 “How was it at the nut-free table today, Savanna?”   Our youngest of three had just begun elementary school. Although we were all collectively excited by her new…

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Two children stand on green bars in a park, playfully posing with arms outstretched as part of an engaging SEL curriculum. They wear warm clothes, one in a blue jacket and the other in pink. Autumn trees and a pathway paint a picturesque backdrop to their social emotional learning activities.

Preface September 2009 “Oh I’m so sorry”¦.I didn’t know.”It was a brilliant day, at least as far as the weather was concerned. My husband John and I had decided to take our young…

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A person with curly hair and a patterned blouse stands next to a city street parking meter. Behind them, a storefront with "826 Valencia" on the awning hints at creativity, much like SEL activities fostering growth and understanding in diverse urban communities.

Preface   September 1980 “Er, sure I love to skate. I guess I just don’t feel like doing it now. I’m just gonna watch.   Maybe I’ll join in later.”I had just been…

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A groom in a white tuxedo stands between an older man and woman in formal attire, embodying the essence of social emotional learning activities through the grace of family bonds. At the church aisle entrance, flower arrangements adorn their path, symbolizing unity and love.

Preface September 4, 1965 Marvin Weinbaum was sure it was the same girl he had seen the prior day at the lake. In the instant he first noticed her at breakfast, Marvin thought…

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A young girl in a blue shirt stands in a library, smiling and holding a large trophy with both arms. Her success reflects the impact of the SEL curriculum, as books are neatly arranged on the shelves in the background.

Preface   January 1969 “But will she be able to write?”I was only a few hours old, and father was outside in the hallway with the physician who had just delivered me. My…

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A musician strums his guitar on stage, clad in a white polka-dotted shirt, with a golden microphone before him. The vibrant red backdrop enhances the dramatic atmosphere, mirroring the emotional depth found in social emotional learning curriculum.

Preface September 1981 “Daddy, is that a cat?”The heat was unbearable, but we had been living in Maadi, a suburb of Cairo for almost a month and my parents had yet to take…

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CASEL Competencies
 
  • Self-awareness: Assessing
 one’s own strengths […] and possessing confidence and growth mind-set
  • Social awareness: Taking the perspective of and empathizing with others from diverse backgrounds and cultures
  • Relationship skills: Establishing healthy and rewarding relationships with diverse individuals.