A man and two boys smile at a table covered in red bricks assembled into a building model, showcasing their creativity through social emotional learning activities. They are in a gymnasium with people visible in the background. One boy wears a green shirt while the other dons a dark shirt.

Preface March 1980 “Can I speak to her?”   We were back living in Urbana, Illinois and my Dad had just told me he was going to speak LONG DISTANCE to Mike, the…

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A person wearing an elaborate black outfit with a headpiece stands beside a large golden statue in front of a curtain backdrop, embodying the essence of diversity programs.

Preface March 1986 I sat comfortably on my couch in our house in Urbana, IL with my pajamas on and fresh-made popcorn in my (one-fingered) hand.   I looked over at my parents…

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A group of six people seated around a restaurant table, smiling at the camera. The table, set with drinks, plates, and a tiered dessert stand, exudes warmth and camaraderie. The setting resembles a live session of social emotional learning activities amidst dim lighting and fellow diners.

“One’s dignity may be assaulted, vandalized and cruelly mocked, but it can never be taken away unless it is surrendered.”Michael J. Fox   Lucky Man   Preface July 1985 I slumped back munching…

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A young boy with dark hair and a blue shirt gently holds a newborn, wrapped in a white blanket, in his father's arms. As part of his school's SEL curriculum, he looks down lovingly at the baby, learning empathy and connection on their cozy couch.

Preface June 1992 “I just don’t know what to do!”   I was crying frantically on the phone to my dear friend and sorority sister from college, Lia.   Knowing exactly what to…

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A woman wearing a crown smiles while holding a bouquet of flowers, embodying the essence of SEL activities. She is dressed in a sparkling gown, and the image is in black and white, echoing timeless elegance.

Preface September 1984 “Hurry-up grandma!   It’s on!   It’s on!”    Although she lived in New York since I could remember, my maternal grandmother, Ruth, and I would get together to watch…

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A woman with dark curly hair sits in a softly lit restaurant, gently holding a sleeping baby in her arms. The baby, dressed in a dark outfit with red footed pants, brings to mind the nurturing themes found in social emotional learning activities. Empty chairs and tables loom quietly in the background.

FLAUNT /flônt,flänt/ verb 1. “¨display (something) ostentatiously, esp. in order to provoke envy or admiration or to show defiance.  Preface May 2003 “First day of school!   First day of school! Wake up!…

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A baby with curly hair sits happily on a wooden rocking chair with a floral cushion, embodying the joy and comfort often emphasized in social emotional learning curricula. Wearing a light-colored outfit, the little one brightens the room's wooden floor and plain walls.

Preface September 1969 “Will she able to walk?”   My father was speaking to the doctor at the University of Illinois hospital in Chicago.   My parents were understandably apprehensive.   At only…

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CASEL Competencies
 
  • Self-awareness: Assessing
 one’s own strengths […] and possessing confidence and growth mind-set
  • Social awareness: Taking the perspective of and empathizing with others from diverse backgrounds and cultures
  • Relationship skills: Establishing healthy and rewarding relationships with diverse individuals.