Amidst a lush background of bright pink flowers, a peacock proudly displays its vibrant feathers, capturing the essence of nature's SEL curriculum—a beautiful way for students to engage in get-to-know-you activities while appreciating the green grass.

Preface February 1982 The heat was practically unbearable.   We were a dozen thirteen-year-old girls who had been crammed together on the hot bus to Alexandria from Cairo for over two hours with…

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A young child with long dark hair in pigtails stands on a playground merry-go-round, wearing a red shirt and patterned pants. A wooden fence is in the background as part of their SEL activities. The child is smiling at the camera.

Preface September 2007 At first, my fears from my own childhood were only about myself.   Would they stare?   Would they care?   Would they whisper?   Would they point?    …

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A woman in a red tank top and black leggings energetically performs a dance exercise in a mirrored studio, integrating social emotional learning activities. She wears a headset, colorful sneakers, and looks enthusiastic. Another person is visible in the mirror reflection behind her.

Preface October 2008 I had never been to Las Vegas, nor had I actually cared to visit, at least not for any type of vacation.   But it was my older brother Peter’s…

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A black and white photo of a young child with medium-length dark hair, wearing a "Crystal Lake" T-shirt. With a slight smile and direct gaze, this image captures the essence often sought in social emotional learning activities to foster connection and understanding.

Preface May 1979 I waited inside as my brother Peter’s friend from school, Tim, rang the doorbell.   I had already seen Tim walking across our grass from the circle we lived on…

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Three children are posing in a wooded area with autumn leaves on the ground, capturing a moment perfect for an SEL curriculum. The girl on the left holds a scooter, while the two boys stand next to her, smiling at the camera, embodying get-to-know-you activities for students in nature's classroom.

Preface October 2012 By now, our three kids were tucked in our guest room sleeping, together in the basement.   John and I decided to also sleep downstairs, nearby on the playroom couch.…

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A woman stands smiling with three children on a suburban street, embodying the values of social emotional learning. The children, dressed casually in colorful attire, playfully engage with their surroundings. Behind them, trees and a car add to this lively scene of connection and growth.

Preface August 1979  It was around 7pm, and my brothers and I were sitting, gathered in my paternal grandmother’s (“the little grandma’s”) one-bedroom apartment on 54th and 3rd avenue.   My grandfather, who…

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A young girl with long, dark hair smiles at the camera, embodying the joy fostered by engaging SEL activities. She is wearing a white turtleneck against a plain, light-colored background.

Preface February 1974 I held on to my favorite monkey, “Monkey Biz.”   Sean had his arms around “Froggy,”who was wearing one of my younger brother Ted’s shirts that he had outgrown.  …

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CASEL Competencies
 
  • Self-awareness: Assessing
 one’s own strengths […] and possessing confidence and growth mind-set
  • Social awareness: Taking the perspective of and empathizing with others from diverse backgrounds and cultures
  • Relationship skills: Establishing healthy and rewarding relationships with diverse individuals.