Children in red jerseys and black shorts engage in a lively soccer match, fostering teamwork on a grass field. A net and trees frame the background, while one child in a black jersey positions near the goal. This game is part of their SEL activities, enhancing their emotional growth through play.

“If you look into the mirror of reality, your reflection will be to face up to your fears and the outcome will be you might find something amazing. I learned that from experience.…

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Illustration of two clownfish in an underwater coral reef, where the smaller fish follows and looks up at the larger one. The scene is colorful with various corals and soft lighting, evoking a sense of connection akin to social emotional learning activities.

I wrote the below post last week just before Hurricane Sandy hit the East Coast.  Posting a day early while I have some juice left in my laptop (no power since Monday).  I…

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View from an airplane window showing a vibrant cityscape below, with tall buildings and a prominent skyscraper near a body of water—a scene that sparks curiosity akin to engaging in get-to-know-you activities for students. The airplane's wing is visible in the foreground, framing the city's diversity.

Preface  July 1991 I was sifting through my limited clothing options, already late for my summer job in the law library of a mid-sized firm in downtown Chicago.   Having just graduated college,…

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A baby in a car seat, adorned in a light blue outfit and white hat, gazes seriously while secured with a black harness. The plaid-patterned seat, reminiscent of diversity programs' embrace of uniqueness, features a visible safety label.

Preface  Dismiss October 1990 There must have been 50,000 people surrounding us at Camp Randall Stadium.   I looked from the center of the 50 yard line up at the large crowd.  Like…

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A man bottle-feeding a baby while a young child in a Mickey Mouse shirt sits nearby, smiling at the camera, creates a warm scene of connection and nurturing. They're indoors, with a glimpse of flowers in the background—echoing themes from an SEL curriculum.

Preface May 1972 “Baby! baby!”   It was one of my earliest memories, if not the first.   Petey and I were sitting on the steps with our grandma, waiting for our parents…

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A woman using a walker is applauded by two people, embodying the spirit of SEL activities. She wears a light green top and patterned skirt in a room with modern design featuring blue and purple hues, where every interaction fosters growth and emotional learning.

“There’s a lot I don’t have that other people have, but there’s a lot I have that other people don’t have.”   Aimee Copeland, September 2012  Preface May 1996 I looked around the…

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An elderly couple, both with white hair, smile warmly at the camera, embodying the essence of social emotional learning activities. They are wearing matching white knit tops. The background shows framed pictures on the wall.

Sitting on someone else’s pee unexpectedly in a public bathroom Nails on a chalkboard Being cornered by a “close talker” Being cornered by a “close talker”who spits while they speak Driving behind a…

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A person, possibly engaged in social emotional learning activities, is sitting on a padded surface, holding two green dumbbells. They appear to be wearing a beige shirt and dark shorts over white padded areas on their knees. The background is softly lit by window light.

 Preface February 1973 (In my Mother’s words from a journal) It is clear, even at this early stage that Meggie will always want to have five fingers on each hand.   She knows…

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CASEL Competencies
 
  • Self-awareness: Assessing
 one’s own strengths […] and possessing confidence and growth mind-set
  • Social awareness: Taking the perspective of and empathizing with others from diverse backgrounds and cultures
  • Relationship skills: Establishing healthy and rewarding relationships with diverse individuals.