A woman with long, wavy hair smiles softly at the camera. She is wearing earrings and a brown top, subtly reflecting her passion for diversity programs. The background is slightly blurred.

“The mediocre teacher tells. The good teacher explains.   The superior teacher demonstrates.   The great teacher inspires.”William Arthur Ward Preface June 1988 I looked around the cabin.   There were sixteen girls…

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A black-and-white photo collage with two images. The top shows three people in formal attire, laughing and smiling, embodying the spirit of social emotional learning activities. The bottom depicts a person in a gown and another in a suit, posing dramatically.

Preface Fall, 1981   I was mesmerized.   Michelle Johnson, a senior at Cairo American College, the K-12 international school in Egypt where my brothers and I attended, was belting out the title…

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A woman speaks into a microphone in front of a projected image showing three smiling children outdoors, embodying the spirit of "FIND YOUR GREATNESS." This inspiring scene highlights the importance of social emotional learning activities in fostering connections.

Preface January 26th, 2013 “Find Your Greatness!”   I was sharing this slogan at the Helping Hands Foundation (HHF) annual winter conference in Boston held this past weekend.   It was borrowed from…

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Three women smiling and posing together in a warmly lit indoor setting with bottles of wine in the background, embodying the spirit of social emotional learning. Casually dressed, one wraps her arms around the others, mirroring SEL activities' warmth and connection.

Preface November 1989 I was more than thrilled.   His name was Eric and he was blond with deep blue eyes, not to mention extremely tall””around 6’3″.   It was a Friday night,…

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A woman with long blonde hair sits in a restaurant, resting her chin on her hand. Clad in a black lace top and pants, she contemplates the colorful art adorning the walls, each piece reflecting themes from the SEL curriculum and diversity programs.

“Well Done is Better than Well Said”  Benjamin Franklin Preface September 1987 I could hardly believe it.   In just an hour William was picking me up downstairs at the Towers, the dorm…

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A group of children stands in a semi-circle, engaging in social emotional learning activities by singing to an audience of elderly people seated around tables. A whiteboard with words is visible in the background, illustrating their diverse program's message.

Preface  December 2012 Recently, John, the kids and I were having breakfast in our kitchen, early in the morning before school and work.     I flipped the news on to check traffic…

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A young boy with brown hair and a blue shirt smiles while standing outdoors, his expression reflecting the joy of SEL activities. Behind him are several large orange pumpkins and a wooden railing, with a building featuring a red exterior and white door visible in the background.

“Life is short; therefore, I shall be a crusader in the struggle against ignorance and fear, beginning with myself.”  —Dorothy Vickers Shelley Preface January, 1976 I looked around at all the other 1st…

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Two children sit on chairs in front of a bookshelf filled with books and an old radio. One child holds a holiday decoration and a toy dragon, while the other has a small Mickey Mouse toy. Their relaxed demeanor suggests they've been engaging in social emotional learning activities.

Preface  December 1975 “Hi, how have you been, Bird?”   My brother Ted looked at my hands directly, waiting for feedback.   I adjusted my voice to a higher and squeakier version of…

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CASEL Competencies
 
  • Self-awareness: Assessing
 one’s own strengths […] and possessing confidence and growth mind-set
  • Social awareness: Taking the perspective of and empathizing with others from diverse backgrounds and cultures
  • Relationship skills: Establishing healthy and rewarding relationships with diverse individuals.