A young child with long hair in pigtails, wearing a red shirt and patterned pants, stands on a playground merry-go-round. This joyful scene highlights the impact of social emotional learning activities, fostering connection beyond the brown wooden fence in the background.

Top three dumb things I have done in my lifetime: Walking into a glass door and shattering it with my face (accident) Putting my car in reverse on the highway soon after getting…

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A smiling young girl with curly blond hair enjoys a play moment outdoors, incorporating SEL activities into her day. She's wearing a colorful pink and purple dress, holding a yellow flower and a leaf amid scattered leaves. A green trash can is subtly present in the background.

April 1973 “I do it myselfie!”   I was barely four years old, but my strong desire to be independent was as much a part of me, as my ectrodactyly, the condition that…

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A bride and groom in a wedding dress and tuxedo share a kiss beneath a floral arch indoors. Beside them, a man in a dark suit, resembling an instructor of social emotional learning activities, holds a microphone and champagne flute. Enthusiastic guests are visible in the background.

May 1993 I couldn’t believe my good fortune.   The law firm of my choice had hired me (and Anne, the only other law student) to become a summer associate beginning in a…

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A person with long dark hair is smiling and looking slightly to the side, embodying the warmth of a social emotional learning curriculum. The background features a bold red and white diagonal design.

Preface July 1993 I looked around hoping to find an open seat.   The Metro North train was overcrowded, and I was utterly wiped out.   After spending the day outside the city…

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A young boy with short brown hair holds onto a green pole in a park full of life. Clad in a gray T-shirt with red text, he stands amidst lush trees under a clear sky, embodying the spirit of social emotional learning curriculum as he explores and grows.

Preface   July 1987 I could feel the warm glow of the sun as it shone on my face and body.   Wearing only my red swimsuit, I was lying flat on my…

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CASEL Competencies
 
  • Self-awareness: Assessing
 one’s own strengths […] and possessing confidence and growth mind-set
  • Social awareness: Taking the perspective of and empathizing with others from diverse backgrounds and cultures
  • Relationship skills: Establishing healthy and rewarding relationships with diverse individuals.