A young girl with long, dark hair smiles at the camera, embodying the joy of social emotional learning activities. She is wearing a cream-colored turtleneck sweater, standing against a plain, light gray background that subtly highlights her radiant energy.

Preface I  woke up a week or so ago and discovered that I had a new follower on my @MegZucker Twitter account.   It was, “@StephanopoulosG.”   My heart raced.   “John!  …

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A man with prosthetic legs and a young girl, also using prosthetics, run side by side on an indoor track. Part of a dynamic SEL curriculum, the girl's yellow dress flutters as they smile joyfully, embodying the spirit of inclusive diversity programs through their shared activity.

Preface May 1984 Despite the long ride ahead of us, we were all elated.   It was the first time my confirmation class was going on a field trip.   The plan was…

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Two women smiling and posing for a photo indoors, showcasing the camaraderie fostered by SEL activities. One sports a striped shirt, the other a "Wisconsin" T-shirt. They stand by a railing with blurred figures in the background, embodying the spirit of connection and understanding.

Preface May 1981   Although only late Spring, it was an incredibly hot day for those of us living in Central Illinois.   I was in the 6th grade at Yankee Ridge, my…

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At a formal event, a smiling couple sits closely. The woman, in a blue dress with long dark hair, complements the man in glasses sporting a striped shirt and paisley tie. In the backdrop of chandeliers, their connection mirrors lessons from an SEL curriculum on building meaningful relationships.

Preface Imagine.   You are at a shoe store.   You see the most beautiful pair of shoes. They are open-toed, spectacular and also well-made.   Despite the price, you even have the…

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A woman with long curly hair sits at a table, engaged in SEL activities. She is wearing a light-colored top, and the room has a warm, cozy atmosphere with a decorative lamp and wooden chair in the background.

My husband, John, and I have always read stories to our kids before bed.   Many of them are traditional or updated versions of fairy tales.   Though often cliché’d by today’s standards,…

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A family of six, including four adults and two children, stands together outdoors in front of a tree. Dressed in formal attire with suits, ties, and dresses, they embody the connection emphasized by social emotional learning activities. Leaves and trees frame their gathering beautifully.

When could helping others ever be considered a mistake? Spring 1985 The Church was beautiful, yet, purposefully simple.   I was in high school and had been dating my boyfriend (coincidentally, also named)…

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A woman using a walker stands in the center of a room with two people clapping nearby, celebrating her spirit. She wears a light blue top and patterned skirt, embodying resilience. The setting, with modern abstract designs, feels like an extension of a social emotional learning curriculum in action.

Preface Although the show, “To Tell the Truth”(CBS) predates me, I remember seeing it when it ran in syndication in the “˜70’s.   The show featured a panel of celebrities attempting to correctly…

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“Your life can change in an instant.   That instant can last forever.” Laura Kasischke May 1981 I was crouched next to my two brothers and our parents in the little room under…

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“Am I pretty?”   Had I had access to YouTube when I was a young teen, given my insecurities about my physical appearance, I might have been tempted to post my own video…

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CASEL Competencies
 
  • Self-awareness: Assessing
 one’s own strengths […] and possessing confidence and growth mind-set
  • Social awareness: Taking the perspective of and empathizing with others from diverse backgrounds and cultures
  • Relationship skills: Establishing healthy and rewarding relationships with diverse individuals.