January 1974 My mother turned to me.   “You must not be my little girl because my little girl has the most beautiful brown eyes.”   I turned to her with a wide…

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A woman and a man are smiling at the camera, exuding confidence. The woman, with long dark hair, dons a patterned dress with a jeweled neckline. The man sports a black suit and striped tie. They seem engaged in an event focused on SEL activities, promoting social emotional learning through connection.

A couple of years ago for our anniversary, John and I decided to spend the day in Manhattan together by ourselves.   Since having our three children, as close as we live to…

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Thanksgiving is known for its celebration of the harvest, but the first Thanksgiving was celebrated to give thanks for safe guidance to the “New World.”   In Canada, Thanksgiving is a celebration for…

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Two young girls, embodying themes from a social emotional learning curriculum, stand side by side in front of a building. The girl on the left wears a patterned dress and headscarf, while the one on the right sports a crown and light-colored gown. Both have serious expressions in this black-and-white photo.

I wore one of my favorite Halloween costumes in the 2ndgrade in Islamabad, Pakistan.   Since so many American children attended the International School of Islamabad, the school allowed us to dress up…

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The other day, Charlie turned to me matter of factly and said, “Mom, I know what the “S”word is.   I found out during my playdate today.”   “Crap,”I thought to myself.  …

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Have you ever held yourself back from doing something simply because you don’t think you can do it?   Or how about (even worse), holding back because you believe others won’t be accepting…

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“That’s Meg’s daughter, she was adopted!”exclaimed a mother I hardly knew, speaking loudly.   The scene took place over the summer at a pool, as I was being introduced by the mother to…

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CASEL Competencies
 
  • Self-awareness: Assessing
 one’s own strengths […] and possessing confidence and growth mind-set
  • Social awareness: Taking the perspective of and empathizing with others from diverse backgrounds and cultures
  • Relationship skills: Establishing healthy and rewarding relationships with diverse individuals.