Three children are posing in a wooded area with autumn leaves on the ground, capturing a moment perfect for an SEL curriculum. The girl on the left holds a scooter, while the two boys stand next to her, smiling at the camera, embodying get-to-know-you activities for students in nature's classroom.

Preface October 2012 By now, our three kids were tucked in our guest room sleeping, together in the basement.   John and I decided to also sleep downstairs, nearby on the playroom couch.…

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A woman stands smiling with three children on a suburban street, embodying the values of social emotional learning. The children, dressed casually in colorful attire, playfully engage with their surroundings. Behind them, trees and a car add to this lively scene of connection and growth.

Preface August 1979  It was around 7pm, and my brothers and I were sitting, gathered in my paternal grandmother’s (“the little grandma’s”) one-bedroom apartment on 54th and 3rd avenue.   My grandfather, who…

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A young girl with long, dark hair smiles at the camera, embodying the joy fostered by engaging SEL activities. She is wearing a white turtleneck against a plain, light-colored background.

Preface February 1974 I held on to my favorite monkey, “Monkey Biz.”   Sean had his arms around “Froggy,”who was wearing one of my younger brother Ted’s shirts that he had outgrown.  …

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A woman with long, wavy hair smiles softly at the camera. She is wearing earrings and a brown top, subtly reflecting her passion for diversity programs. The background is slightly blurred.

“The mediocre teacher tells. The good teacher explains.   The superior teacher demonstrates.   The great teacher inspires.”William Arthur Ward Preface June 1988 I looked around the cabin.   There were sixteen girls…

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A black-and-white photo collage with two images. The top shows three people in formal attire, laughing and smiling, embodying the spirit of social emotional learning activities. The bottom depicts a person in a gown and another in a suit, posing dramatically.

Preface Fall, 1981   I was mesmerized.   Michelle Johnson, a senior at Cairo American College, the K-12 international school in Egypt where my brothers and I attended, was belting out the title…

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A woman speaks into a microphone in front of a projected image showing three smiling children outdoors, embodying the spirit of "FIND YOUR GREATNESS." This inspiring scene highlights the importance of social emotional learning activities in fostering connections.

Preface January 26th, 2013 “Find Your Greatness!”   I was sharing this slogan at the Helping Hands Foundation (HHF) annual winter conference in Boston held this past weekend.   It was borrowed from…

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Three women smiling and posing together in a warmly lit indoor setting with bottles of wine in the background, embodying the spirit of social emotional learning. Casually dressed, one wraps her arms around the others, mirroring SEL activities' warmth and connection.

Preface November 1989 I was more than thrilled.   His name was Eric and he was blond with deep blue eyes, not to mention extremely tall””around 6’3″.   It was a Friday night,…

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CASEL Competencies
 
  • Self-awareness: Assessing
 one’s own strengths […] and possessing confidence and growth mind-set
  • Social awareness: Taking the perspective of and empathizing with others from diverse backgrounds and cultures
  • Relationship skills: Establishing healthy and rewarding relationships with diverse individuals.