Four women in fashionable clothing pose confidently while sitting in wheelchairs against a dark background, embodying the spirit of SEL activities. One woman raises her arm energetically, while the others display different styles and expressions.

Recently, a great guy named Chad, a new Don’t Hide It Flaunt It follower, asked me what would seem to be a simple question, “Could I ask, what drove you to start this…

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Bright sun over a peaceful beach with trees and distant mountains, mirroring the harmonious blend of a SEL curriculum. The sunlight reflects on the calm sea, creating a serene atmosphere akin to get-to-know-you activities for students fostering genuine connections.

Preface May 2013   Rio de Janeiro, Brazil I tensed, hoping that the people joining me for dinner hadn’t overheard.  I had  flown down to Rio for the week for work.   It…

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A young person with short brown hair lies in a hospital bed, wearing a purple gown. Bandages cover their arms as they clutch a small stuffed lion. Medical equipment surrounds them, while thoughts of SEL activities bring comfort during this challenging time.

Preface May 2013 I turned around to see our eight-year old, Charlie, goofing around with some friends in our mini-van on a group playdate.   They were clearly in a great mood, with…

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A person with long brown hair smiles while standing outdoors at an event. They're wearing a strapless black outfit, and a crowd and a structure are visible in the background under a clear blue sky, creating an ideal setting for SEL activities that foster connection and engagement.

Preface 1980  I could overhear my mom speaking to my grandma long distance on the phone.   Although I couldn’t hear what my grandmother was saying to her, I could practically feel the…

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Amidst a lush background of bright pink flowers, a peacock proudly displays its vibrant feathers, capturing the essence of nature's SEL curriculum—a beautiful way for students to engage in get-to-know-you activities while appreciating the green grass.

Preface February 1982 The heat was practically unbearable.   We were a dozen thirteen-year-old girls who had been crammed together on the hot bus to Alexandria from Cairo for over two hours with…

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A young child with long dark hair in pigtails stands on a playground merry-go-round, wearing a red shirt and patterned pants. A wooden fence is in the background as part of their SEL activities. The child is smiling at the camera.

Preface September 2007 At first, my fears from my own childhood were only about myself.   Would they stare?   Would they care?   Would they whisper?   Would they point?    …

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A woman in a red tank top and black leggings energetically performs a dance exercise in a mirrored studio, integrating social emotional learning activities. She wears a headset, colorful sneakers, and looks enthusiastic. Another person is visible in the mirror reflection behind her.

Preface October 2008 I had never been to Las Vegas, nor had I actually cared to visit, at least not for any type of vacation.   But it was my older brother Peter’s…

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A black and white photo of a young child with medium-length dark hair, wearing a "Crystal Lake" T-shirt. With a slight smile and direct gaze, this image captures the essence often sought in social emotional learning activities to foster connection and understanding.

Preface May 1979 I waited inside as my brother Peter’s friend from school, Tim, rang the doorbell.   I had already seen Tim walking across our grass from the circle we lived on…

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CASEL Competencies
 
  • Self-awareness: Assessing
 one’s own strengths […] and possessing confidence and growth mind-set
  • Social awareness: Taking the perspective of and empathizing with others from diverse backgrounds and cultures
  • Relationship skills: Establishing healthy and rewarding relationships with diverse individuals.