A young boy in a blue shirt and gray shorts playfully interacts with a large yellow football tackling dummy on a grassy field. As part of SEL activities, other people and sports equipment create an engaging backdrop, fostering teamwork and emotional growth.

Bus Driver: [after noticing Mrs. Doubtfire had hairy legs] I like that Mediterranean look in women. Natural, healthy. Just the way God made you. Mrs. Doubtfire: [modestly] Well, He broke the mold when…

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A young boy in a white shirt and red shorts sits on a blue bench in a shoe store, exploring get-to-know-you activities for students on his tablet. He seems to be waiting, surrounded by shelves of shoes and other customers bustling about.

Phantom Pain: An often-painful sensation of the presence of a limb that has been amputated. (Merriam-Webster)   Preface August 1978 “C’mon, honey– smile.   It’s not that bad. Here, let me measure your…

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Three young boys sit on a red carpet in a play area, immersed in SEL activities. One wears a gray shirt, another sports a black top with camouflage pants, and the third dons a red shirt. Barefoot and engaged, they explore colorful equipment that promotes growth and understanding.

Preface April 2009 As I entered the colorful yet extremely loud party room at a nearby “My Gym”facility, I glanced over at the cubbies where rows of little pairs of socks and shoes…

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A person wearing an elaborate black outfit with a headpiece stands beside a large golden statue in front of a curtain backdrop, embodying the essence of diversity programs.

Preface March 1986 I sat comfortably on my couch in our house in Urbana, IL with my pajamas on and fresh-made popcorn in my (one-fingered) hand.   I looked over at my parents…

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CASEL Competencies
 
  • Self-awareness: Assessing
 one’s own strengths […] and possessing confidence and growth mind-set
  • Social awareness: Taking the perspective of and empathizing with others from diverse backgrounds and cultures
  • Relationship skills: Establishing healthy and rewarding relationships with diverse individuals.