Just to set the record straight, I haven’t always embodied my mantra, “Don’t Hide It, Flaunt It.”   Rather, it took me years to get here.   Although I was generally a happy…

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Preface For those of you familiar with the 1970’s sitcom, “All in the Family,”you can’t   forget watching the bigoted Archie Bunker repeatedly mock his son-in law, Mike Stivik, (aka “Meathead”) for everything…

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Black and white close-up of a sleeping newborn baby with dark hair. The image focuses on the baby's face resting peacefully, capturing the innocent and delicate features typical of a newborn, much like the tender beginnings explored in a social emotional learning curriculum.

Preface What does it take to prepare oneself to speak in front of millions of people?   I realize many people never face such a prospect and most decline to speak before even…

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Okay, I know that anyone reading this post is probably already aware of my spot on Today (NBC) this past week.   While, yes, the title of this blog, “I did it”does reflect…

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When I was pregnant with Ethan I often stressed about every aspect of what could possibly go wrong before delivery.     At the time, I even remember cursing the person that wrote,…

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January 1974 My mother turned to me.   “You must not be my little girl because my little girl has the most beautiful brown eyes.”   I turned to her with a wide…

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A woman and a man are smiling at the camera, exuding confidence. The woman, with long dark hair, dons a patterned dress with a jeweled neckline. The man sports a black suit and striped tie. They seem engaged in an event focused on SEL activities, promoting social emotional learning through connection.

A couple of years ago for our anniversary, John and I decided to spend the day in Manhattan together by ourselves.   Since having our three children, as close as we live to…

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Thanksgiving is known for its celebration of the harvest, but the first Thanksgiving was celebrated to give thanks for safe guidance to the “New World.”   In Canada, Thanksgiving is a celebration for…

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Two young girls, embodying themes from a social emotional learning curriculum, stand side by side in front of a building. The girl on the left wears a patterned dress and headscarf, while the one on the right sports a crown and light-colored gown. Both have serious expressions in this black-and-white photo.

I wore one of my favorite Halloween costumes in the 2ndgrade in Islamabad, Pakistan.   Since so many American children attended the International School of Islamabad, the school allowed us to dress up…

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CASEL Competencies
 
  • Self-awareness: Assessing
 one’s own strengths […] and possessing confidence and growth mind-set
  • Social awareness: Taking the perspective of and empathizing with others from diverse backgrounds and cultures
  • Relationship skills: Establishing healthy and rewarding relationships with diverse individuals.